
We have all heard the headlines about AI taking over the world, or seen AI-generated images or videos all over the internet. It can feel a bit cold, a bit "sci-fi," and maybe even a bit scary. But what if we stopped looking at AI as a robot replacement for humans, and started seeing it as a personal assistant for our messy, beautiful brains?
When you are in the middle of a spiral, the anxiety is loud and your to-do list seems never ending, you need a way to clear the fog.
I’ve been exploring how we can use these tools mindfully, not to replace our human connection, but to bridge the gap when we’re feeling stuck. It turns out, AI can be a surprisingly kind mirror when you don’t have the energy to talk to a person yet.
Here is how we can use AI as a gentle tool to declutter your mind and find a bit of calm.
When your head is spinning with fifty different tasks, tell the AI everything that is bothering you in one big, messy paragraph. Ask it to "Categorise these into 'Things I can control' and 'Things I can't'." Seeing that mental clutter organised into a list instantly lowers your cortisol levels and helps you breathe again.
If your brain is telling you "I'm failing at everything," type that thought into an AI and ask: "Can you give me three more balanced, mindful perspectives on this thought?" It isn't about lying to yourself. It's about training your brain to see a different perspective rather than having an "all or nothing" panic.
We’ve all had those days where even starting the laundry feels like climbing Everest. Ask an AI to "Break down the task of cleaning the kitchen into five tiny, five-minute steps for someone who is feeling overwhelmed." It removes the barrier of getting started and makes the impossible feel doable.
If you are terrified of a difficult conversation at work or with a partner, tell the AI what you want to say and ask it to "Respond as a supportive but firm friend." It lets you practice your words in a safe, zero-judgement space until you feel confident enough to say them in the real scenario.

Instead of scrolling through endless apps, ask AI:
"Give me a three-minute mindfulness exercise for someone sitting at a desk who is feeling anxious with tension in the neck and back".
You get a tool that is tailored exactly to your physical sensation in that moment.
Sometimes we just feel "ugh" and we don't know why. Describe your physical sensations (such as a racing heart or a heavy stomach) and ask for a list of emotions that might match those feelings. It’s a brilliant way to build your emotional vocabulary and start "naming it to tame it".
I'm all about finding tools that work for me as an individual, but also to help my clients. AI is just a tool - it doesn’t have a soul, and it can’t replace the warmth of a real conversation or the power of being truly heard by another person. However, on a rainy Tuesday at 11:00 PM when your head won’t stop spinning, it can be a very helpful bridge back to yourself.
We are navigating a busy, chaotic world, and it is okay to use every tool you have at your fingertips to keep your peace of mind intact. You don’t have to do the heavy lifting all by yourself.
If you are curious about how to blend these modern tools with ancient mindfulness techniques, I offer one to one mindset coaching. If you'd like to book a call with me, click the banner below.
